Tisha B’Av, the Jewish holiday of mourning, falls on the ninth of the Hebrew month of Av. This means that Tisha B’Av begins at sundown on July 22 and ends on the night of July 23 in 2026.
The three weeks leading up to Tisha B’Av are a time of quasi-mourning, devoted to solemnity and reflection. During this time, the Jewish people refrain from personal indulgence and joyous activities. Weddings, parties, and other festive events are not permitted. In the last nine days of this period, leading up to the ninth of Av, the intensity of mourning increases—people refrain from eating meat or drinking wine. Bathing, beyond what is absolutely necessary, is prohibited, as is doing laundry, and buying or wearing new clothes.
This period concludes in the Fast of Tisha B’Av, a day that is spent entirely in mourning—fasting, praying, sitting on stools instead of chairs, and reading the Book of Lamentations, a poem recounting the prophet Jeremiah’s grief for the fallen city of Jerusalem. Fellowship Founder Rabbi Yechiel Eckstein wrote in his book, How Firm a Foundation, “[Tisha B’Av] is the blackest, most sorrowful day in the Jewish year…Unlike the fast of Yom Kippur, which is one of repentance, that of Tisha B’Av is one of mourning and sadness” (p. 129).
What Happened on Tisha B’Av?
The tears we shed on Tisha B’Av are primarily associated with the destruction of the First Temple in 586 B.C.E and the Second Temple in 70 C.E.; however, the origins of this tragic day go back centuries earlier.
The Tisha B’Av Story
According to Jewish tradition, the year was 1313 B.C.E. when the Israelites were on the threshold of entering the Promised Land. Two years earlier, they had been freed from Egypt through God’s powerful miracles, including the 10 plagues and the parting of the Red Sea. They had already experienced the revelation of God at Mt. Sinai and received His Word in the Torah. Indeed, they had been blessed with many of God’s loving miracles.
Before entering the land, Moses had sent out 12 spies to bring back a report about the land. When the spies returned, all but two of them gave a bad report. They determined that it was unconquerable. That night, the ninth of Av, “all the members of the community raised their voices and wept aloud” (Numbers 14:1). They cried because they wanted to return to Egypt. They cried about their circumstances. But ultimately, they cried for nothing because God had already shown them that with Him, they could do anything.
According to Jewish Oral Tradition, that night God decreed, “Tonight they cried for nothing, so in the future I will give them a reason to cry!” Those words sealed the fate of generations to come. Both the First and Second Temples were destroyed on Tisha B’Av, marking the most agonizing and painful periods for the Jewish people, resulting in an exile whose ramifications are still felt today.
Echoes of Sorrow: Tisha B’Av Meaning Through the Ages
Throughout history, the Jewish people have suffered numerous tragedies on the ninth of Av, extending far beyond the ancient destruction of the Temples.
Around 135 C.E., the Jewish rebellion against Roman rule, a desperate fight for autonomy and dignity, was ruthlessly suppressed on the Tisha B’Av holiday. This defeat led to the massacre of thousands of Jews, a devastating blow to the community’s spirit and hope. The following year, the Romans reestablished Jerusalem as a pagan colony, further erasing its Jewish character.
The echoes of Tisha B’Av continued through the medieval and modern eras. In 1290, the Jewish community in England faced expulsion, a directive that shattered lives and dispersed a vibrant cultural group. Centuries later, in 1492, a similar fate befell the Jews of Spain, leading to a diaspora that profoundly impacted history. World War I began on Tisha B’Av, ultimately helping to set the stage for World War II and the Holocaust.
Tears that Count on Tisha B’Av
The Jewish sages teach that after the destruction of the First Temple, the prophet Jeremiah accompanied the Israelites to the Euphrates River, at which point he informed them that he was returning to Israel to stay with the few remaining Jews there. The people began to weep inconsolably. Jeremiah said to them, “I testify in the name of God that if this sincere cry would have transpired moments ago, when we were still in our homeland, the exile would never have come about.”
Indeed, there is an appropriate time to weep. There is an opportune time to cry out to God. Tisha B’Av is one of those times. It’s a time to cry sincere tears of repentance and longing for God. It’s a time to regret past mistakes and to long for a better future with a restored relationship with God. These are the tears that God desires, and the tears that can open doors to salvation according to the Tisha B’Av story.
When the Israelites were enslaved in Egypt, it wasn’t until they cried out to God that the wheels of salvation began to turn. Similarly, our personal redemption, and that of the world, will come about when we turn to our Father in heaven and cry out to Him with sincere heartfelt prayer.
Tisha B’Av is a time to weep for what really matters in life. We weep for the shattered relationship between God and His children. We remember that all evil in this world is a direct result of the loss of God dwelling in our midst. As we read in the Book of Lamentations on Tisha B’Av, “pour out your heart like water in the presence of the LORD.”
Marking the End of the Tisha B’Av Holiday
Yet even this saddest of days for the Jewish people is not without hope. In the afternoon, the people rise from their mourning stools and recall the tradition that says in Messianic times, this time of mourning will turn into a time of great joy and celebration.
The conclusion of Tisha B’Av is not merely an end to a period of mourning; it is a transition into a time of hope and reflection. This shift is deeply rooted in Jewish tradition, symbolizing the resilience and enduring faith of the Jewish people.
As the afternoon arrives, there is a significant change in observance. The community, which has been engaged in solemn mourning, begins to rise from their low stools. Beyond being a physical movement, this act symbolizes a spiritual elevation, a collective shift from the depths of sorrow toward a future brimming with hope.
In the days following Tisha B’Av, this sense of hope is nurtured and grows. The Sabbath after Tisha B’Av becomes a time for reading prophetic selections of consolation. These readings, which continue over the next seven Sabbaths leading up to Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, are imbued with messages of comfort and future redemption. They serve as a balm to the soul, soothing the raw emotions awakened during the mourning period.
A Day of Hope
A story is recorded in the Talmud that took place after the destruction of the Second Temple. When Rabbi Akiva and his colleagues came to Mt. Scopus and witnessed the Temple’s destruction, they tore their clothing in mourning. When they got to the Temple Mount itself and saw foxes running around where the Holy of Holies once stood, they cried. But Akiva laughed.
“Why are you laughing?” the rabbis asked. “Why are you crying?” Akiva replied. The rabbis explained that they were looking at the holiest place in the world and “now foxes run through it! How could we not cry!” Akiva replied, “That is why I am laughing.”
He continued, “One prophet said, ‘because of you, Zion will be plowed like a field’ (Micah 3:12). Another prophet said, ‘Once again men and women of ripe old age will sit in the streets of Jerusalem, each of them with cane in hand because of their age. The city streets will be filled with boys and girls playing there’ (Zechariah 8:4–5). Since the words of one prophet have been fulfilled, I now know that the words of the other prophet will also be fulfilled.” To this the rabbis exclaimed, “You have comforted us Akiva, you have comforted us.”
